This week we have been really
busy! We taught about 22 lessons this week, most of which were to non members,
less actives, and recent converts. We had 6 less active people at church on
Sunday! It just made my day! It's so great to see these people progress; nothing
makes you happier as a missionary!
On Monday after preparation day
was over, we had dinner with the L---. We had just barely received a new rule
that we aren't allowed to do service for active people (which stinks! They need
it just as much as anyone else). Well, when we arrived she told us that she
needed help to clean out her pantry because she broke her ribs and she couldn't
lift anything up or down. We had agreed to help her the week before because her
ribs have been giving her a lot of pain and her husband is disabled and can't
help.
So since dinner wasn't ready and
we felt like we couldn't take back our offer because we had already agreed to
help, we speed-cleaned her pantry before dinner.
I seriously feel like we are
blessed to accomplish things more quickly as missionaries so that we can spend
minimal time serving, but still get everything done that people need of us. I
never remember being able to work this fast at home. Maybe I just wasn't as
motivated...
After our appointment there we
went to see R---. She is doing so well and wants to be baptized as soon
as she can recover enough to make it out of bed! She had Word of Wisdom
problems, but her stomach surgery made it so she can't have those things
anymore, so there's nothing holding her back anymore! We are excited for
her!
On Tuesday we had a morning full
of meetings. We have been encouraged to attend all presidency meetings if
possible at least once to talk to the about the North American Initiative. So
the Primary let us come to their presidency meeting which was really great of
them. One thing I love about a mission is it really lets you see how the church
operates and gives you an idea of how to be effective and what is good and what
is not. It's really quite the educational process.
We also had a meeting with the
zone leaders to talk about everything that's going on in our area so they can
better help us and so they know what's going on throughout the zone. We were
worried the whole morning that perhaps we had done something wrong and they had
called a FaceTime conference to correct us.
We visited the P--- family
and we were pretty concerned for our life. It took us 5 minutes to get to the
door because they had this ferocious-looking dog and even after it had smelled
our hands kept growling and barking in a very intimidating way. So we took it
slow so we didn't freak her out and were able to make it inside without getting
eaten. Needless to say that when we left she growled and barked at us all the
way back to the car. But it ended up not being worth risking a hand to the dog
because the husband wasn't interested at all in what we had to say even though
he politely sat in on the lesson (he's not a member) and she was in tears during
the lesson, but when we invited her to return to activity she told us she would
come when she had a reason and that she didn't have a reason. Then she proceeded to tell us
all of the reasons she had been offended, which I am sure didn't help her
husband feel any warmer towards us. On the bright side we are welcome back. We
will probably visit them again when we are in the area since they live quite far
out of town.
We had to hurry to our dinner
with the W--- afterwards. It was cute because their little girl tried to
read a scripture reference in the pamphlet. It was 2 Nephi 2:22-25 and she said
it like : second Nephi two DOTS twenty two dash twenty five. It was so
cute!
After dinner we went on splits
with J---, one of our ward missionaries, and L--- who is a college
student visiting her mom for a few months. This was my first time going on
official splits. We have had members come along with us before, but we have
never had so many lessons at once in my other areas that we could split
up.
I felt bad for the elders
because the people they were going to go with bailed on them, so they both had
to go with Brother M---. We always tease them that it's just because people
like the sisters better.
I went with Sister Morey and we
headed right to the M--- house. We had planned to have FHE with them on
Monday night, but they forgot. So we scheduled to come over on Tuesday, so
sister Morey and I went to that. We had planned to do an FHE to get her
non-member husband comfortable with us and to help him feel good about us coming
over. It was a huge success. Sister Morey knew Sister M--- mother and they
were good friends, so they bonded from the start. We played Candyland with them
and this other game where you stick a card to your forehead and try to guess
what you are.
Then we wanted to have a lesson
with them that was about a principle of the gospel that wouldn't freak out the
husband, so we had a lesson on obeying your parents, tied in with repentance and
the Atonement. Needless to say the parents liked the lesson and the kids were
more enthusiastic about being obedient.
So they told us we were welcome
back which was definitely a success and it was great to watch their walls come
down as they relaxed and realized that we weren't so bad. I hope great things
can happen with that family if we foster an environment where the Spirit can be
present and where they can learn about the gospel in a non-confrontational
way.
We saw the W--- but the wife
wasn't home so we couldn't stay, not to mention the husband and his friend
wouldn't turn on any lights and wouldn't turn the Tv down or off, so it was
impossible to share a message. Not to mention, P---, their little boy, was
going to the bathroom in the middle of he living room on a little port-a-potty.
Not the best environment.
Then she introduced me to D--- who we are hoping will become someone we can start working with so that he
can become active again.
Then we visited the W--- and
had a great scripture study with them. We talked about how The Lord is our
greatest champion and how sometimes the results of our faith are not instantly
manifest. However, even if they don't see the results of their faith immediately
it doesn't mean that they don't have faith. We talked about having faith even if
we can't tell how much faith we have.
Sister Beckstrand also had a
successful night. They saw many people and L--- had a good time. Apparently she
taught really well. I hope she decides to go on a mission; she would make a
great missionary.
So sister Beckstrand and I went
home tired but very happy with the night's work.
The next day was beautiful, so
we decided to bike! Sister Beckstrand's tire was a little flat and kept getting
progressively more flat as we rode, but we don't have a bike pump and she can't
ride my bike because it is too big for her.
To make matters better, as we
got to S--- house for our first appointment it had begun to rain
steadily. We hoped it
would cease by the time we finished our lesson with S---, but that
wasn't the case.
S--- is so amazing.
She came to church last Sunday and she told us when we came over for her lesson
that it was the first time she had been to Relief Society in 3 years! Now, as of
yesterday, she had been to all 3 hours of church twice! It is so great to see!!
It seriously is the best to see her want to change her life and then work to
make it happen.
Sometimes I forget how young we
must appear to people. Whenever I am in lessons I feel so old, almost the same
age as the people we visit. I guess there is a difference between physical
maturity and spiritual maturity (not saying I am close to spiritually mature, I
have a LONG way to go). It's just that someone commented on it yesterday and I
guess it had never really occurred to me that we must appear quite young to
those we work with. It's a wonder they take our challenges and trust our
suggestions. It must be a gift of the Spirit to missionaries. The church must be
true if people our age can preach the Gospel and help people 3-4 times our
age.
As we left S--- it
was raining lightly so we tried to ride quickly to R--- house, but as
soon as we set off the rain intensified and the temperature dropped. By the time
we had even made it a mile we were quite wet and we gave up trying to duck our
heads to keep dry. We were glad to duck under the cover of the doorway when we
arrived. We tried to straighten ourselves without much success before we went
in.
R--- never opens the door
because she can't make it out of bed yet, so we knock and just walk in. She was
having a really rough day. She was throwing up as we came in and told us she had
been throwing up all morning. She kept alternating between putting on her air
mask and heaving into a trash can. It was so sad and there wasn't anything we
could do to help. She wasn't sick, it was just complications from the surgery.
Luckily her son showed up to see her and give her her meds and was able to call
her doctor. Sister Beckstrand is a sympathetic sick person so she couldn't stay
in the room. She kept asking me to play her piano, so I did while Sister
Beckstrand tried to share a comforting message. We weren't able to stay long
though because there wasn't anything we could do.
Luckily there was a break in the
rain as we set off again.
We decided to head over to the
W--- to see if they had a bike pump we could borrow. By the time we made it to
the W--- it was raining again. After thoroughly searching their garage and
their house we had no luck and were completely without transportation and it
kept raining harder and harder. We decided to visit J--- in an attempt
to wait out the storm and still have lessons.
J--- is disabled and really
can't go anywhere, so she was thrilled to see someone had stopped by to see her.
She is alone a lot, so I can understand why she kept talking, and talking, and
talking. We didn't get much of a lesson in because by the time we could get a
word in edgewise it was time for us to leave for dinner.
Contrary to our hopes, the rain
had not died down while we were at J--- house. If anything, it had gotten
much, much worse. We quickly realized that we couldn't ride home in it with
Sister Beckstrand's flat tire to get the car so we could get to dinner. We saw
the elders drive by but here is a new rule that we can't ride with elders and
vice versa. We called them anyway because we were stranded under a garage
awning, but of course they couldn't get us. They had the assistant with them and
they told us yesterday that their consciences were screaming at them about
leaving two sisters in the rain.
Luckily, after a lot of calls
our dinner appointment finally answered her phone and was able to pick us up in
her truck. Thank goodness everyone in Montana has a truck! So she was able to take
our bikes and us to dinner. We were so grateful!
After dinner we had a great
lesson. We had planned to see A--- and J---, (the worker there) to teach a lesson. When we
arrived there was also another worker that was about J--- age named R---. A---, the cute old lady that she is, practically commanded them to sit
for the lesson! So they both joined in and we taught them the Plan of Salvation.
J--- was full of questions and we were able to answer a lot of them, but some of
the we had to take home for further study and answered a few days
later.
R--- was attentively listening
the whole time. She said she didn't have any questions and believed what we
said. She also asked if she could take the pamphlet and a Book of Mormon! It was
the greatest!! We invited her to church on Sunday and she agreed.
However, she wasn't there at
church on Sunday and we found out from A--- that she had forgotten and had
come in to the rest home later, practically in tears! She was so sad she missed
it! So A--- invited her to come next week and I really hope she shows up.
It was such a fabulous day
despite all of the difficulties. And A---, who was mourning the fact that
she "wasn't useful to anyone" is now being an instrument in the hands of the
Lord for a greater purpose. It's so amazing to see how the Lord is blessing
three people's lives at the same time in different ways. He is the
best!
On Thursday we had Zone
Conference and it was really interesting and different. Instead of listening to
the assistants and President Mecham talk, we did a bunch of role plays and
discussions in break out groups. It was really interactive and I learned so
much!
Then we had the strangest
meeting where they trained everyone on how to be a trainer and told us that we
were getting a bunch of new missionaries in to the mission this next transfer.
I'm rather surprised that we can take more missionaries. I thought we were close
to our cap. I'm secretly hoping that they're going to split the mission. I think
that would be so cool! But I guess I'll have to wait a week to see what happens.
I kind of hope I won't be training. I like having a companion who knows what
they're doing. Oh well, I can't be selfish though. ;)
That night the Roberts fed us
the best dinner! I thought they were going to have to roll us out of the house.
In true Montana style we had amazing steaks, potatoes,
corn on the cob, ice cream, salad, and bread. It was so filling! And it was the
best dinner I've had in a long time!
That night sister Beckstrand and
I went on splits again because she had to go to this Family History convention
at the college to help out and I needed to be in the Addiction Recovery class to
support some of the people that have been wanting to go but felt to intimidated.
So I went with J--- and Sister Beckstrand went with S---. It
ended up working out well, even though I liked the ARP class in Bozeman better. We weren't
allowed to talk in this one, I guess they figure we're not addicted to
anything.
C--- is still changing and
she came to church again! The transformation is indescribable! She looks like a
completely different person than she did the first time I met her. She is
literally glowing! She has put so much effort into this transformation and am
so proud of her! She is working so hard to quit smoking and it is still a
challenge but she is more determined and more successful than anyone I've ever
seen before! Please pray for her!!!!
We helped the G--- pack some of their house this week. We are sad they are leaving and hope hey are
happy in 1st ward. I really hope that they keep track of the two girls, they are
so precious and so ready for the gospel! They just need their dad's permission
to get baptized. If you could pray for them, S--- and M---, that would be great. They
really need it.
We taught a lesson to A---, the
German foreign exchange student that is staying at the Bywater's house. I tried
to talk more slowly so she could pick up on the words, but Sister Beckstrand
talked normal speed, so I don't know if she got it. She was excited though and
asked if she could keep the pamphlet! Then she came to church on Sunday. I hope
we will be able to plant the seeds so she will meet with missionaries when she
returns to Germany in 2
weeks.
P--- is doing great! She
is really working through some trials of faith right now with her desire to pay
tithing and become temple worthy. It is such a huge test of her faith though
because she isn't sure if she will be able to make ends meet if she pays
tithing. We are hoping that she follows through with her commitment to pay it
for the next two months to prove the Lord. I guess we will
see!
The W--- want to begin working
to go to the temple. I am so proud of them! They've been keeping their Word of Wisdom
commitments and it's very possible that they could be ready in the near future.
D--- is still
progressing. Slowly. Very, very slowly.
And the best news for last!!
Pete, the man I was helping work with in Bozeman got baptized on Friday!!!! I was so
excited! He wanted to Skype me and was crying he was so happy! I am so happy I
got to be a part of his baptism, even if I missed some of his lessons. I can't
wait to see him again someday. He has truly changed his life! It's
amazing!!
Well, it's going to kick me off,
so that's all I have time to share. I love you all! Don't forget to write and
send pictures!
Love you!
Sister Draney
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