It will be August this week, how weird! Time is just flying
by, it’s amazing!
We are working with R---- this week on temple preparation.
We asked him why he wanted to go to the temple and he said, “because it’s
somewhere I haven’t been yet.” So, clearly we need to do a lot of work on
helping him understand why we attend the temple before he gets his recommend
and goes to do baptisms for the dead.
So this week was a little strange because we had exchanges,
which means that we swapped companions with the Bozeman 2nd ward
sisters. So I went to 2nd ward for three days with Sister Templin
and Sister Session went with Sister Lemmon in our ward. It was really weird to
be away from 1st Ward. I’ve never left 1st Ward for
transfers since I got here in December. It was weird but refreshing to be in a
new place.
So, the names this week might be a little different than the
people I normally write about, but they were all amazing to get to know and to
get to teach.
Sister Templin and I accompanied P--- to the office of
Brother Tubbs, our stake employment specialist to set up an account and begin
looking for work. P--- looked so good all dressed up in his shirt and tie. He
is really working hard to change his life and to turn over a new leaf. He
applied for a bus driving job and at a gas station and various other places. It
was really interesting because P--- didn’t know how to use a computer at all.
So we had to guide him through all of the steps and help him understand what
the sign-up form wanted. He typed with only 1 finger and it took such a long
time that it was difficult to stop myself from wanting to do it for him.
However it’s important that he learns how to use technology. It’s like a little
kid, if you give them a chore to do it may take them longer to do and they
might not do it as well as you, but it’s important to let them do it, however
slow they may be, because in the end practice will make them better. It’s the
same with P---, he’s very slow on the computer but having those skills will
make him more attractive to potential employers. We even set up his first email
account and showed him how to use it.
We had dinner at the B--- house.They invited a non-member friend T----, to dinner and she
seemed really apprehensive when she first showed up, but we chatted with her
and tried to ask her all about her life and her work. Eventually she began to
open up and see that we are normal people. I think when people see missionaries
they don’t really think of them as normal people capable of talking about
non-religious topics. Obviously we can talk about non-religious topics…we’re
just really good at directing an un-related conversation to the gospel. ;) Dinner went very well and we felt accomplished when we left.
T--- seemed very at-ease and she agreed with everything
we said in the lesson we gave after dinner. She kept nodding and smiling as we
taught. It was very good.
We dropped by their bishop’s house to get a letter for P---.
P--- is trying to get into this house for homeless people trying to recover
from addictions and to do so he needed a letter from someone verifying that he
is homeless. The bishop did such a good job, it looked very professional.
Sadly, later that week when P--- went in for his drug test
it came back inconclusive. It was a rough day for P--- because he was so
excited for this new place and now he has to wait a week for them to send it to
a lab. We are all a little confused that it would be inconclusive because he
says he hasn’t done any drugs since the 4th of July. We feel
inclined to believe him, however drug tests don’t lie. So we will just have to
wait to hear back from the lab.
We taught this young girl, K---, that is ready to get
baptized but isn’t sure if she wants to anymore. It was a very powerful lesson.
We read Moroni 10:3-5 and talked about exactly what it tells us to do to get an
answer to our prayers. She didn’t understand it at first but by the end she was
excited to try it out and find out her answer. Poor Sister Templin, she got
eaten alive by ants.
We attended the Addiction Recovery Program for the first
time that night to support P--- and another one of their people, Monica. It was
really interesting to hear people talk about their struggles. I think the
church program is really amazing; the people there were contrasting it to other
addiction recovery programs they had tried, like Alcoholics Anonymous. They
were talking about how the coins weren’t good incentive because when they
messed up they would have to give them all back and start from scratch. They
liked how the gospel isn’t like that. You don’t have to start over. Sometimes
you make mistakes but it doesn’t matter how many times you fall, what really
matters is how many times you pick yourself up again. (That was a quote, though
I’m not sure from who. I just can’t claim that I can word a statement that
well. Ha, ha)
We had a lesson with P--- outside of the church and it was a
great way to end the day. He is so awesome! I’m so glad we get to teach him.
I’ve been present for so many of his lessons that he’s counted as a joint
baptism between 1st and 2nd ward sisters. How great is
that?!
On Wednesday morning we left at 8am to head over to D---
house. We picked up the other sisters (because our truck was still in the shop)
and all of our cleaning supplies and headed over. When we arrived he was still
asleep, but he went in to change and let us in anyways. And thus began the
greatest cleaning service project in the history of Bozeman 1st
Ward.
I started on the sink and the other sisters started on the
walls and other places. We got our gloves and masks out to start cleaning and
just seconds after we started one of the other sisters let out a kind of
strangled gasp. We all went over to see what had happened. Now, D--- walls
are always a sick kind of yellowish-brown but we figured it was just stained
from years of smoking inside his trailer. Well it turns out that it wasn’t
stained, it was covered in tar! As she had started wiping it came off and
revealed the white walls underneath. So they set to work trying to find the
walls underneath the tar and dust. Sister Lemmon wrote “Mormon” in giant
letters in the tar with her glove and Sister Session drew a smiley face. Let me
tell you, Lysol will cut through just about anything. We went through almost 2
bottles in the 3 hours we were cleaning D--- house. I set to work on the kitchen. I started cleaning off dishes
that I thought were rusted, but they weren’t rusted at all, they were covered
in some sort of dark, nasty liquid; like tobacco spit. It was so gross. I spent
all of my time trying to find the sink and the counters. There was so much dust
on the stove and on all of the pans. We had to throw some stuff away because it
wasn’t salvageable. I was of the opinion that we should just burn the trailer,
however that wasn’t an option. The bathroom was the worst. I couldn’t believe
it was something he actually used! The bathtub was black and it looked like
something had been set on fire in it. The toilet looked like something you
would need a hazmat suit to clean. We didn’t dare approach the bathroom because
it was so disgusting. The whole toilet was smeared with waste and stained. It
was terrible. Everything was covered in dog hair from his terrier. Sister Templin cleaned off the stairs and she ran her hand
over the carpet and a massive glob of hair and dust came up. It was roughly the
size of a loaf of bread. It was terrible! There was so much dust and hair in
the carpet that it broke their vacuum. When she started it sent up such a cloud
that we were all very, very glad that we had bought face masks. We couldn’t
finish vacuuming because the vacuum couldn’t handle it.
In the end, by the time we left his house wasn’t clean, not
by a long shot. However it was significantly less dirty than it had been. We’re
going back in a few weeks to see if we can dent the mess further. At least now
he can get some air in his house because Sister Lemmon cleaned off the screens
that were clogged with smoke, tar and dust. He was very grateful. He asked what he could do for us and I
told him to read a verse out of his copy of the Book of Mormon and he was like,
“well, besides that.” I will admit that his answer was kind of frustrating
because we had just spent 3 hours cleaning his apartment so he didn’t die of
the filth and he wouldn’t read out of it himself. He has to have us read for
him.
Needless to say we were very, very glad to get home and
shower. It was one of the nastiest service projects I’ve ever done. But it came
with such a good feeling that it was well worth it. It must make Heavenly
Father sad to see one of His children living like that in such a terrible place
without the light of the gospel in his life. He has such great potential in his
life! We just have to help him realize it. It’s hard to break old habits.
We had a great lesson with A---, the lady we found on
the side of the road while we were walking. She is so amazing! She talked and
talked to us and showed us around the house. She agreed to come to church this
Sunday and she actually came! She loved church and the people really took her
in and encircled her. She also wanted to come to a little boy’s baptism but she
got a migraine and wasn’t able to come. We taught her about Joseph Smith and
about the Restoration and she agreed with us on everything! She is so prepared.
It just goes to show that no matter what age people are at, they can still
accept the gospel and it can make such a change in their lives. We will
continue to teach her with the 2nd ward sisters.
The big disappointment of the day was that someone had
stolen R--- grill that we found. Augustine was so upset because it was on
her front porch and it just disappeared. We assured her that it was okay. It
ended up being alright though because Lowes offered R--- a full-time job and
he has decided to leave KOA. So now he has to find a real place to stay. He
can’t just stay in the tent for free anymore like he has been doing. Speaking of the KOA, this last week the people from the show
Sister Wives came and stayed at our KOA to film an episode about camping.
R--- said it was irritating because they had their whole crew with them. They
were only there for a couple of days. I didn’t get to meet him.
I tried Sister Lemmon’s “toxic cleanse” that she drinks
every day. It almost made me throw up. It has unsweetened molasses, honey,
water, and cayenne pepper. I think it might have one more thing, but I’m not
sure. It was so gross. Cleanses like that are definitely not for me!
We had another lesson with P--- in the parking lot of
Walmart. It was a great meeting except for the fact that we were sitting in an
ant pile. Luckily none of them bit us because the Spirit was there and we
didn’t want to disrupt it by moving.
We had food bank volunteering as usual on Thursday. It was a
little different though because we had to go to the Community Café to help them
move a stove. We didn’t end up being much help because they had the men and the
elders lift it. We also got to draw banners for Patrick’s goodbye party. He is
one of the managers there and we will be sad to see him go. I ate some of his
cake and I felt like I was going to die from overload of sugar.
On Friday we went to the library to make the game for our
ward movie night later that evening. Sister Session ended up making it while I
supplied a few ideas. It was one of the games with the squares where you have
to find other people with certain characteristics and get them to sign your
box.
We had an early dinner, 4pm, with the Warrens. It was very
healthy- quinoa, chicken, and onions. They also had a kale and cabbage salad
with strawberries for dessert. It was kind of nice because I didn’t feel
weighed down with food after we left.
Our ward movie night was a total flop. We invited so many
people and texted/called over 40 people to remind them and after all of that
work and setting up the projector and the lights and the snacks, only 5
families came and all of them were active. We were SO disappointed! It was
quite terrible. We had a good time talking with the families that were there
though and caught part of the baptism of a little boy that was going on down
the hall.
We visited V--- early on Saturday morning and it turns out
it was her 91st birthday! Luckily her daughter-in-law rescued
us and gave us a bag Butterfingers to give to her. She was so excited to see us
and we were able to sing to her. As we were leaving we ran into Sister Marlow
who was picking up V--- to take her out to lunch for her birthday. She asked
us to come along, so we agreed and had a very nice lunch with them at
Applebees.
We had to go to the church right after lunch because we were
all having interviews with President Hopkin, one of the members of the mission
presidency. We ended up waiting for 3 ½ hours to be interviewed. It ate up our
entire day and my interview was less than 5 minutes. It was pretty good though
and it was nice to talk to him.
The most interesting part of the night was the fact that we
had 2 dinner appointments scheduled because D--- and C--- (our new
investigator and less active) called us and asked what we were doing at 6:30.
We told them we weren’t doing anything because we would be out of dinner at
that point. Well, they told us they wanted to feed us and they sounded so
excited that we couldn’t turn them down. We went to our dinner with the S--- first and tried to
not eat very much but they kept offering us more. So we ate a decent dinner
there before heading over to C--- and D---. C--- and D-- had gone all-out to make dinner for us. They
were so excited to see us, they set the table so
nicely. We had a fabulous dinner with them, complete with Martinellis. After dinner we had an amazing lesson with them. We had
planned to teach them the Restoration but D--- had so many questions that we
had a three and a half hour discussion with her about her questions. Every time
we answered one she had another one for us. C--- even helped us teach and
explain to D---. Her questions were amazing and she seemed so excited and
mostly satisfied by our answers. We are giving them another lesson tomorrow;
this time there will be more structure.
Well, the other night I had to get up to go to the bathroom. I was just
laying down to go back to sleep when all of the sudden Sister Session starts
screaming in her sleep! I was so scared I nearly wet myself haha. After she
stopped I was like, "Sister Session?....Sister Session?..." but she
didn't respond. So I was kind of freaked out that she would do something else
like charge out of bed and grab me so I turned on the lights to wake her up.
She was so confused! She had no memory of it at all. It was really funny and
kind of scary at the time. I had a tough time going back to sleep.
We had a lesson with R--- on Sunday morning before he was going to go
to 3rd ward because his job prevented him from attending all three
hours of his ward. So he goes to two hours of 3rd ward and one hour
of our ward.
On our way back from R--- lesson we saw a duck on the side of the
road that wasn’t moving away from the cars. We thought that was strange so I
made Sister Session turn around and park the car. We walked back and when we
got closer we saw a drain and when we looked inside we saw 9 ducklings huddled
together in a corner with the mom calling them. We hurried home to change into
pants and grab some things. Sister Session had the idea to bring a dish cloth,
tie string to the corners and use it to lift the ducklings out of grate. The
grate was sealed to the ground by the asphalt. We hurried back to the place with our supplies (including the handle of
our broom) and went back to the grate where I lowered our little “hammock” into
the grate while she scooted the ducklings in as best as she could. It took
quite a while because the ducklings were freaked out, but finally we were
successful. More people came to help us and one woman kept the momma duck and
the ducklings we had rescued from wandering off without the rest of the babies
and another woman came with a little pole to help us herd ducklings. Eventually a police officer showed up when we had fished two or three
from the grate and got out. I was a little nervous that we would get in
trouble, but he was like, “So, issters…what are you doing?” We explained and he
turned out to be from 2nd ward. He turned on his lights and then
proceeded to set cones out around us so we wouldn’t get hit and stayed with us
until we rescued all of the ducklings, which took us about an hour. Eventually it was a success and we got them all out! We herded the whole
family to a little stream and they all swam away peacefully. Hopefully we
didn’t scar the ducklings for life. It was a great adventure! It was funny
though because we couldn’t touch the ducklings because then the mom might not take
them back. One fell on this lady’s lap and she was like, “oh no! Get it off!
Get it off!” and I was like, “Don’t touch it! Don’t touch it!” and finally it
managed to get off and back to its mom.
It was quite the morning!
We finally saw the S--- again last night and got to have a good chat
with them. Before we left we asked to sing a song for them and they agreed. We
sang “How Great Thou Art” and they loved it so much that they had us sing other
hymns for over half an hour including “Nearer My God to Thee”, “Angels We Have
Heard on High”, and “The Spirit of God”. Their cat even loved it. She came in
and jumped up right next to us and sat there watching us the whole time. I
tried to pet her. She bit me.
All in all we had a wonderful week! It was a little unusual but I enjoyed
it. I hope you all have a great week!
Love you all!
Sister Draney
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